Flirting.
Sitting at a coffee shop watching some people....
Yea, that thing you used to do as a young man / woman, flirting with the opposite sex (for some maybe the same sex, however, that don't count)! Just for fun, or to score - or maybe just because you could. Well, it's still out there, and both young and old still do it. All the time - flirting that is.
Why is that? To prove "you still have it". Can still turn a head, catch an eye? I wonder. Maybe it's just the way we are. In the animal world (them of four legs), the "hunt" is a never ending thing. Even those males who don't have a harem / pride / whatever, are always looking, trying to get it on. Birds are always doing the dance, building nests, getting them trashed.....
SO, maybe it's just in our makeup. Maybe it's supposed to be like that, and I suppose, if it does not lead you astray, it's ok.
But, for many it's more. It's going out to prove they can. Can get the other man / woman. Can break up that marriage / engagement / item. Maybe they can, but what then? If the 3rd party here can / will do it once, what's to say they wont do it again? I mean, how often does a secretary and her boss get it together, they leave their spouses, shack up / get married. She becomes the kept housewife (can't have the wife as a secretary) and 3 years down the line he's doing it with his new secretary?
So, back to flirting... (amazing how you can go off on a tangent all the time), it's done, and it's ok, as long as it's all in good fun. Keep an eye on it though, it could lead to serious trouble.
Salagatle!
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